Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: I get messages at least three times a week from women asking me for “relationship advice” about the married man they are dating (i.e., having an affair).
These “other women” are frustrated because the man they are in a relationship with hasn’t left his wife and they want some form of commitment from him.
I’m Jocelyn, and I hope you will all meet someone who loves you. If you have emotional problems, you can ask me for advice. If you are single, maybe you can meet him/her on Bothlive.
If you find yourself in the middle of an affair, it’s natural to wonder, “Will he leave his wife for me?”
If you are a woman who is currently having an affair with a married man, this will be a slap in the face to you – and that’s what you need.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: How do you know if a man will leave his wife for you? If he puts you above his wife and he spends all or most of his time with you, then that’s a good sign that he wants to be with you. If he also talks to you about his plans to officially divorce his wife and actually does it for you, then this is another important sign.
However, you should be careful because there is a fine line between saying you are going to do something and actually doing it.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: If you are his lover, he will most likely never leave his wife for you. If a man has already cheated on his wife for you and then falls in love with you, chances are he will do the same thing to you with another lover if you stay with him.
Here are three reasons why you’re wasting your time waiting for him to leave his wife for you
1. Between his wife and his lover, he already has everything he needs.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: Why would he leave his wife and kids? He can have a wonderful time with you, with absolutely no commitment or responsibility, and then he can go home and play with his kids.
That would be the ideal situation for him.
He has his wife to cook for him, clean up after him, take care of his kids, and then he has his lover to take care of him in every other way he needs.
A man wouldn’t leave his wife for you, it’s like having two girlfriends who do everything for him. He enjoys it!
2. Divorce is painful and expensive.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: Think about the effects of divorce. The arguments, the angst of the children, the financial burden, and the host of other problems that come with divorce.
Why would he put himself and his family through that if he didn’t have to? You seem happy to see him when he can satisfy you, so why would he leave his wife?
3. If he wanted to leave his wife, he would have left her long ago.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: If this man loved you more than anything, then even with the pain of divorce and the angst of leaving his family, he would have left her by now. If he wanted to be with you, if he loved you as much as you think he does, he would have left his family long ago. Married men don’t leave their wives for their lovers anytime soon.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: Come to think of it, he hasn’t and won’t divorce his wife because he doesn’t want to. It’s as simple as that.
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What makes a man decide to leave his wife?
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: If you want him to leave his wife or girlfriend for you, then you must look for signs that he is leaving his wife. One obvious sign is the ability to develop a deep emotional connection that is stronger than the one he already has with his current partner.
Another sign is that he won’t pull away if you also give him space and don’t give him everything he wants at all times. Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: You want him to make a commitment that he can actually keep, so you should first know that you have some leverage in the relationship to make sure you don’t believe in any false promises.
How do you know if a married man really loves you?
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: If he really loves you, then he will love you at your worst and at your best, he won’t run away when times are tough, he is genuinely happy when you are around him, and he won’t try to change you because he likes you the way you are.
His actions will also speak louder than words.
Think about why you are dating a married man and ask yourself these questions.
Are you dating a married man because you like to take risks?
Is it because you don’t want to take responsibility for yourself?
Are you afraid that a man will hurt you?
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: Many women date married men because they are very afraid to go out and meet men. They fall in love with married men because deep down, they know it will never work out. They don’t need to make themselves 100 percent vulnerable.
There may also be specific circumstances that would make him definitely leave his wife to be with you, such as no children or he is already in the process of divorce. Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: You can rationalize these situations a bit, but when there are more situations and drama to deal with, dating a married man can be very complicated.
Dating a separated man who won’t divorce: Other women just like to pursue, not search for true love. They love the drama of trying to win a man who is not theirs.
You need to figure out who you are.
My advice is to stop being a third party. It’s not fair to anyone.